When an EX-Boyfriend threatens You!!!

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Anthaku mundu mana blogpost Painful Relief lo harassing husband nundi bayata ochi daring ga life lead chesthuna Deepa gurinchi thelusukunam kada. Thanani threaten chesina Ex-Boyfriend nundi bayata padina maro strong woman experiences mi ipudu chudham...

In her words.....

Nenu B.Tech lo oka abbayi ni love chesa.. Ranu ranu thana sadism, irresponsibile behaviour and abusiveness bharinchaleka an year back breakup cheppesa.. Thanaki breakup cheppaka naku oka manchi match vachindi, intlo andarki nache sariki nenu kuda ok cheppanu.. Engagement aypoyake naku pelli fix ayindi ani na frieds ki inform chesa.. Nenu love chesina abbayiki matter telsi oka roju night naku call chesi "nannu love chesi vere vadni ela marriage cheskuntav ela ayina marriage cancel chesko leda nenu suicide cheskunta ani bedirinchadu". nenu adi pattinchukoledu.. Daily call chesi cancel chesko nuvvu breakup cheppavu nenu cheppaledu ani ane vadu..  Nuvvu ante naku istam ledu ani nenu cheppina kuda "istam lekapoyina nanne pelli chesko ani arichevadu"... Ila undaga oka roju thagesi athani parents ki na gurinchi cheppesadu.. Valla dad ki memu kalisi teeskunna photos avi chupinchadu.. Valla dad ma intiki ochi me ammayi ma abbayini mosam chesindi love chesi manchi match ragane vadni vadilesindi ani chepparu.. Ma intlo aayana chepindi nammaledu.. Apudu mem teeskuna photos chupinchi, ive proofs pelli cancel cheskondi leda em cheyyalo maku telsu ani annaru.. Tarvatha valla dad tho nenu matlada "entidi ila enduku chesaru inkosari ila cheyodhu marriage cancel cheskolem" ani cheppa, one month urukunaru..

Ma father chinapude expire ayipoyaru.. Nenu, mom and thatha garu ye untam.  So maku support ledu ankoni,  marriage inko 25days undi anaga ma grand father ki vala father call chesi marriage apakapothe bagodhu pelli koduku valki ee photos and personal chats screenshots pamputham ani bedirincharu .. Ma grand father chala strong, pampithe pampuko apudu chuddam ani response icharu.. Marriage agipothundemo, family paruvu pothundemo ani nenu chala tension padanu..

Aa time lo naku legal ga approach aythe problem solve avthundi anipinchindi.. So nenu oka lady criminal lawyer ni consult chesi aameki na situation motham explain chesanu.. Aame case motham examine chesi athanu harrass chesthunatlu proofs emana unnaya ani adigaru.. Na dagara apudu proofs em levu.. So aame advice prakaram thana call record enable cheskuna. Oka roju athanu call chesi pelli chesko ani chala abusive ga matladi, marokarni pelli cheskunte either nannu champestha or thanu chanipotha ani blackmail chesthu matladadu..  Aa call recordings ma lawyer vini DSP tho matladaru, aayana ma regional CI meda pressure petti issue solve cheyamani chepparu. So nenu ma area CI ni kalisi na problem explain chesi na dagara unna proofs chupinchanu..

First case lekunda settlement chedham valu vinakapothe apudu case file chedham ani CI advice chesaru.. Pelli time lo case file chesthe issues ayyi family publicise avadam kana naku ade better anipinchi, nenu opukunanu..  So nenu CI ki written ga "nenu okapudu thanani (na ex) love chesanu but thanu chesina harrasment and torture thattukoleka break up cheppi ipudu marokarni pelli cheskobothunanu.. E time lo na ex, nenu maro pelli cheskunte either thanu chanipothanu or nannu champestha ani blackmail chesthunadu also athaniki thana father support kuda undi.. Nenu ipudu cheskune marriage istapade cheskuntuna.. Thana (na ex) meda elanti istam ledu thanani marriage cheskune thought kuda ledu.. E problem solve chesi na pelli ayela chudandi" ani rasi, na ex and thana father phone numbers police valaki ichanu.. Valu aa complaint thesukuni na munde oka conistable athani father ki call chesi Police station ki pilipincharu.. Inka pai nannu disturb cheyakudadhu ani warning icharu, aayana bhayapadi police cheppina daniki agree ayyi inkepudu na life lo vallu involve avamu ani written statement icharu..

Problem solve ayindi ane nenu anukunanu, but pelli ki exact ga two days mundu na ex ma uru ochi sucide attempt chesadu.. Athanu pellikoduku number sampadinchi, memu digina photos whatsapp chesadu and athaniki call chesi meru pelli cheskoboye ammayi natho thirigindi ani evevo cheppadu.. Luckily pellikoduku naku call chesi nenu athani happy ga pelli cheskuntunana leda ani oka question adigaru.. Nenu happy ga heartful ga cheskuntuna ani cheppanu.. So inka athanu na ex ki respond avaledu.. Response lekapoye sariki athanu suicide attempt chesi aa photos and hospital lo unatlu videos thesi pellikoduku valla tho "meru kalyana mandapaniki ela vastaro chustam" ani bedirincharu.

Nannu pelli kuthurni chesina roju na ex vala dad ma intiki vachi ma abbayi suicide cheskunadu vadiki em ayina ayithe me inti dagare padesta ani godava chesaru.. Ma thatha garu bhayapadakunda em cheskuntaro cheskondi ani clear ga chepesaru.. Aa abbayi valla dad and athani friends andaru kalisi Police station ki velli na valle athanu suicide attempt cheskunadu ani case pettadaniki try chesaru.. But thank god!!! munde nenu written ga vala meda rasi ivvadam manchidi ayindi.. Police valu "merippudu complaint ichina meke problm aa ammayiki em kaadhu.. Thanu already complaint chesindi so suicide attempt chesinanduku me kodukune jail lo vestham and aa ammayi ni thana family ni trouble chesthunanduku me andariki kuda siksha paduthundi" ani warning ichi valani pampesaru..

Next day naku marriage ayindi.. Na husband chala understanding and nenu ante chala istam. I am happily married. Na story tho nenu em chepali anukuna ante "Ilanti problems chala mandi face chestuntaru but correct ga ela react avvalo theliyako or  bhayapado victims ayipotharu.. Koncham dairyam chesi me family ki cheppi, vala support tho oka lawyer advice thesukuni police valani approach avandi. ilanti problems ni ala ayetene correct ga deal cheyagalam"

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Blogger  Note:

Chalamandi ilanti situations osthe suicide okate option ga pettukuntunaru.. Suicide cheskunte meku problem solve avthundi but me family ki problem perigipothundi, meru leru anna badha nundi valu epatiki kolukoleru... Suicide or depression make things worse. Try to overcome them and fight for your life... Remember Darwin's theory of "Struggle for Existence." ONLY THE STRONGEST SURVIVES!!!

 "Be Strong and Act Wise"

 E incident dwara harassing & threatening guys ni ela handle cheyali ani meku oka idea ochindi ana hope tho... I am signing off :)

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