Beauty of making a house to home - by A Happy Housewife

Hi Ladies,


E blogpost housewives/homemakers ki dedicated. Chala mandi home makers valaki migatha vala nundi oche pressure vala, leda valani valu thakkuvaga chusukodam vala depress avthunaru. Naku e madhya kontha mandi valu face chese issues message chesaru, nenu valaki moral support ichina kuda, nakana thanala homemaker ayundi life lo happyga unnavalatho cheppisthe baguntundi anipinchindi..  Ala anukunapudu naku ochina Only Option "Haritha Sarat" (my best Akka), a happy home maker, mother of a beautiful angel, joyful cook, motivational speaker, Singer, multitasking person.... cheppukuntu pothe chala different shades unnay.. so thana experiences thana wordslo chudandi..


Naku or Haritha Akka ki Working women patla chala goravam undi e postlo ekada valani thappu paduthu cheppaledu. Idi just homemakers ki moral support ivadam kosam mathrame chesthuna oka attempt. 


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Hi,

nenu Haritha, House wife.. naku oka 6year old kid, Annie :) nenu BE(EEE) chesaanu.. chaduvu ante chala chala ishtam.. life lo ededo saadhinchaali, daddy vaallaki manchi peru theeskuravali.. thanu na koothuru ani thalethukkoni garvanga valu cheppukune sthayi lo nenundali ani anukunedaanni. Engineering lo distinction vachindi.. naku software patla antha interest ledu government jobs ante interest. So final year lo kooda job trials avi nenem cheyyaledu.. chaduvaipoyaaka dadaapu 5 months intlone unna, also matches osthundevi.. Intlone vundi chaduvkunedaanni.. Aa tarvatha intlo valani voppinchi Hyderabad vella job trials kosam.. Hyderabad vellina one week ke networking side manchi job vachindi.. Kani original certificates icheyyaali annaaru.. Two years bond ani annaaru.. Naku antha twaraga job vachinanduku intlo andaru chala happyga feel ayna bond anesariki bhayapadaru.. so e job odhu annaru.. appudu APGENCO ki coaching theeskunna.. test rasa. . Just two marks valla test poindi naku, chala baadhapaddanu.. Enti edi try chesina ila avthunnai anukunna.. Nenu Hyderabad lo vundi just one and half month matrame.. try chesindi ee renditike.. Even then chala feel ayyaa.. Ala undaga oka match ochindi ani chepthe pelli chupulaki intiki velanu. abbai Bihar lo working Government job.. Two years tarvatha transfer aipothundata. . So two years work cheyyakoodadantnaaru ani cheppaaru.. Chala manchi abbai ani cheppaaru.. so ok le two years ye kada ani daddy ki ok cheppaanu.. Match kudirindi..  Aayana peru Sarat, chusthundagane Haritha nundi nenu Haritha Sarat aypoyanu. ma varitho patu Bihar ochesa. Homemakerga na journey start ayindi.


Naku vanta lo 1% kooda pravesam ledu.. aa mukka vaariki cheppi vanta baga nerchukovali ani fix ayya.. appatlo ma intlo internet ledu.. Aslu mobile ye ledu naku.. landline vundedi anthe.. kabatti paper lo recipes, books lo recipes anni cut chesi oka dairy lo antinchukune dani. alage tv lo vache vantala programs edi miss avvakunda anni dairy lo raaskunedaanni.. Aakharki vaalu popcorn curry anna kooda vadalakunda adi kooda raaseskoni adi kooda vandesedaani :P  pellayyaaka inchuminchu one Mon pattindi uppu kaaraalu sarigaa veyyadaniki :P Tarvatha parledu baane chesthundedaanni. . Ila one year vantalu baga nerchukunna.. Asalu time ye telsedi kaadu edo okati cheskuntu enjoy chesesa.. One year ayyaaka matram konchem bore anipinchedi.. ee lopu nenu pregnant ayanu, so delivery ayaka job cheyadam start chedham anukuna. ma vaaru kuda naku support chesaru. Ma athaya garu na pelliki munde chanipoyaru, mavayya garu unnaru, so evaranna maid ni pettukuni papaki six months vachaka job cheyochu intlo mavayya garu untaru kabati parvaledu manage cheyochu anukuna. Pregnancy timelo kuda job kosam chaduvkuna, delivery ayi baby puttindi. kani anukokunda puttina konni monthski mavayya garu suddenga chanipoyaru. Maku adi oka pedda shock.. Dani nundi recover avadaniki maku chala time pattindi.


Aa time lo nenu job trails veyali ante papani odalali nenu work ki velali ani badhaga undedi.. Ma side andaru working so ammallu kooda raaleru..papani only maid chethullo petti or play school lo vesi nenu jobki vellanu lenu.. so aalochincha two months aalochincha.. So papani odili aa timelo job cheyalenu ani papa pedhadi aye varaku intlo undali ani decide ayyanu.. aa timelo evaru call chesina ente inka intlo ena ila.. enthakalam ila adi idi ani questions vesevaaru. . Inkondaraithe aslu intlo koorchodanike Engineering chesaava ani kooda anevaaru.. Appudu matram chala baadhaga anipinchedi.. Aa time lone online jobs vethakadam start chesa ante papa 7th month lo anukunta.. Two months chesa pedda ekkuva amount raadu kani self satisfaction anamata anthe.. Papa bajjunnappudu work chesthundedaanni.. evari kosam ila nidra maanukoni health paaducheskuntu work chesesthunna ani konnalake naku anipinchindi.. so aaonline jobs cheyadam manesa.. Naku modatnundi chinnapillaltho aadukodam ante chala chala istam.. Chinnapati nundi ekkuva time ma babai pillaltho ma thammudu tho spend chesthundedaanni.. Soo ee bujji papatho kooda alane vundaali ani fix ayya.. appati nundi inkaslu elanti aalochana lekunda happppppppy ga bujjammatho time spend cheyyadam start chesa..


Annitikanna important vishayam, ma vaari vala nenu nerchukunadi couple madhya ego vundakoodadu. . Neneppudu idi vaari sampaadana adi idi ani feel avvaledu , vaareppudu intlo nene sampaadisthunna antha na ishtam annatlu leru... ye decision theeskovalanna iddaram kalisi aalochinchi decide avthaam. . Intlone vuntundi pani paata em ledu annatlu vaareppudu natho vundaru sari kada, inti baadhyatha motham nene theeskunnaanani chala proudga feel avthu chala satisfy avthaaru.. Ma athaya garu housewife, so aameki ma vaaru close avadam vala housewife ante inti panulu manage chesthu pillalni properga penchadaniki entha kashtapadatharu intlo andaru peaceful ga undadaniki valu entha stress thesukuntaru ani vaariki baga thelusu, so naku ayana chala supportivega untaru. Aayana lepothe ipudu e haritha intha bold ga strong ga happyga undi undedi kademo.. I owe this to my husband :)

Pregnant ayyaaka intlo net pettinchaaru aayana.. Friends peddaga vundevaaru kaadu kani naku nachindi FB.. FB lo unna only girls groupslo memberga add chesaru nannu.. Groups/pages ante ento kuda theliyani dani nenu.. group lo join ayaka okati ardam ayindi grouplo andaru girls and valu chala supportive ani.. Papa contest gurinchi grouplo post pettinappudu chala baga andaru respond ayyi edo vaalla intlo pillane gelipisthunnatlu feel ayyi raathri pagalu naku thoduga vundi chala contests gelipinchaaru.. Akka antu chala premaga unde valu. Life lo eppatiki marchipoleni pillalu antha :) :) chala sweet memories ni maakichaaru. . Alage naakedanna prob vachina kooda andulo post chesthe chala vodaarpunichevaaru.. Ade time lo cooking recipes konni post chesthundedaanni.. Just vanta raani vaallakosam simple recipes chepthundedaanni.. Anni recipes oke chota vunte bavuntundanipinchi so nenu oka recipes group okati petta.. Alage online jobs kosam oka group and contests promotions kosam oka group petta.. Chala recipes post chesa group lo, alane online jobs kuda nenu first chesi genuine anipisthene nenu grouplo post chese dani.. edo satisfaction vachedi naku ee groups valla.. ipudu nenu FB ki dooram unna so e groups ni responsible ga unde marokariki appachepanu..


Papa ki Ippudu six nd half years.. thanaki every year nenu thana photos tho movie chesthunta.. like oka year lo theesina pics nd videos selected vi anni varasaga petti movie chesthunta.. every year thanu ye movie lo characters ni aithe ekkuva ga istapadthundo aa year bday ki aa theme pettukoni decorate chesthunta.. Chinna chinna crafts kooda chesthunta birthday kosam alage normal ga thanaki use ayyelaga leda thanu aadukunelaga.. So ila evry second edoti chesthune vunta.. evaranna intlone vuntunnaav bore kottada neeku ani adiginappudu antunta BORE KOTTENTHA TIME NAKU LEDU ani..!! Pellai 8 nd half years avthundi. . Aslu ee 8 years ela gadichipoyaayo naake teleedam ledu..


So idi na story, Priyanka nannu inspiring ga emanna cheppakka, nee life lo jarigina edo oka incident cheppu ani adiginappudu aslu naku em cheppaalo ardamkaaledu. . Ala em cheppalenu ra adi idi anna.. Kani ten days Tarvatha anipinchindi chala baga chaduvkoni job cheyyakunda evevo reasons tho intlo vundevaalla kosam edanna chepthe bavundu ani.. so na life lo nenu face chesinavi cheppanu.


Nenu job chesthu vunna kooda intha happy ga satisfied ga vundedaanno ledo teleedu kani ippudaithe matram 200% satisfied :) :) inka ma parents aithe hayyo ila intlo vundipoindi enti ani feel avvadam aapesi,  baby tho hubby tho nenunde padhathi anni choosi ponlemma memu miss aindi nuvvu miss avvatledu.. Eppudu ilane happy ga vundandi ane antunnaaru :)


So mana paristhithula batti manam working aa housewife aa annadi decide cheskunnappudu plz time theeskoni aalochinchi decide avvandamma.. Ye decision theeskunna kooda mana kosam mana family kosam theeskunede kada, anthe thappa edo family kosam sacrifice chesesthunnaamani kaadu kada.. so ye decision theeskunnaa kooda please don't regret ra... theeskunna decision ki 100% nyaayam cheyyandi :) feel avvoddu.. Modatlo job trails chesthunnappudu oka job ni vadulkunna inko job thruthilo thappindani feel aipoya.. Kani ee roju koorchoni aalochisthu vunte anipisthundi ra.. asale nenu aa jobs lo ye okati chesthu koorchunna ee roju bavagartho naakaslu pelle ayyedi kaadu, na life ila vundede kaadu.. aa roju chala feel ayya nijanga,  kani ee roju ala jariginanduku Devudiki Thanks cheppukuntunna..!!! :) :)



Intha pedha post oppika ga chadivinanduku thank you :) Happiness or sadness anedi manam thesukune dani batti untundi. So stay strong and be happy :)



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So Guys, this is what Haritha Akka messaged me.. Infact chepalante aame chala thakkuva chepparu, thanu songs baga padatharu, dance baga chestharu alane evarna badhalo unte valaki moral suppport istharu.. konni thousands memberski aame moral support icharu, oka mom ela aythe mana gurinchi caring ga alochinchi suggest chestharo haritha akka kuda alane thana mana para bedham lekunda andariki manchi jaragali ani heartfulga korukuntaru.. chala mandiki vala baby related contests lo promote chesi help chesaru.. She is now completely dedicating her time to her beautiful angel and supportive husband. Aame papa koncham teenage ki ochaka physically and mentality challenged kids ki school pettali anadi aame dream... she is a housewife but she didn't restrict herself.. She choose to be happy so she made her life and others life happy :)


Hope you guys are feeling better after reading about this wonderful human being. Woman (homemaker/working) is NOT the one who just make household chores, she is the one who make a happy home.

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