Hi Beautiful Souls,
Anthaku mundu blog post When an Ex Boyfriend Threatens You lo oka strong woman gurinchi theluskunam kada... Ipudu blog post lo maro strong woman gurinchi thelusukundam :)
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In her words...
Nenu Engineering lo unnapudu okathani love chesanu.. Nenu apudu chala calm and sensitive ga unde dani, kani thana vala nenu chala nerchukuna. Thanu nannu chala care chese vadu, anni vishyalo chala support chese vadu, thanalo ivvani chusi nenu thanani enthala love chesanante na gurinchi kuda epudu alochichukoledu. Na importance ni kuda poorthi ga marchipoya.. Chusthundaga 7 years gadichipoyayi, na chaduvu aypoyi nenu oka job lo join ayyanu. Ma prema vishyam intlo cheppali ani decide ayyi oka roju cheppesanu. Apati varaku unna life motham ga maaripoyindi.. Ma parents na prema ni oppukoledu, nannu job manpinchi ma uru ki thesukuni velpoyaru, na dagara phone kuda thesesukuni complete ga house arrest chesesaru. Nenu love cheyadam ma intlo valaki nachaledu, vala paruvu pothundi ani bhayapadaru.. Atu side athani parents ki emo ma parents oppukunte inkem problem ledu ani chepparu anta.
Naku roju narakam la anipinchedi. Oka side career pothundi maro vaipu thanani miss avthuna anna badha. Edana job lo join avthe thanatho matladochu and ma parents ni oppinchochadaniki chance untundi ani ma parents ni kashtapadi oppinchi ma uru lone oka job lo join ayyanu. Nenu ma parents ni oppinchadaniki chala try chesa, chala thitlu and thannulu thinnanu kani ma valu mondiga intercaste marriage ki oppukomu anesaru. Ila one and half year chala try chesanu. Inthalo nenu entha cheppina vinadam ledu ani ma dad na boyfriend ni "nu ma ammayi ni marchipokapothe mem andaram chachipotham" ani black mail cheyadam start chesaru. Vere daari leka na boyfriend nannu odilestha ani cheppadanta. Naku ma daddy thanani blackmail chesarana vishayam ma family friends dwara thelisindi.
Idi ila undaga naku na boyfriend ki mutual friends vala chala godavalu ayyevi. Valu kavalani godavalu create chese valo leka situations ala ayyevo ardam ayyedi kadu. Chala badha pade dani oka pakkana na parents nannu ane sutipoti maatalu maro paka thanatho godavalu, na life ento nake ardam kani stage ki vellipoyanu. Roju yedchedani, chala lonely ga feel ayye dani. Ma parents matalu thattukoleni stage lo unna naku nenu preminchina athanu kuda nannu mosam chesthunadu ani thelisindi. Natho premalo undagane maro ammayi tho affair lo unnadani na friends dwara thelisindi.
Athani double game thelisaka na mind antha blank aypoyindi. Mundu e vishayam nammaledu kani tharvatha thana gurinchi nijalu bayata paddayi.. Yepudu thana gurinchi alochisthu yedchedani.. E lopu chala vishayalu jarigayi, na manasu virigipoyindi. Na badha evariki cheppukovalo ardam ayyedi kadu, em cheyalo thelisedi kadu.. Intha pressure lo nenu job handle cheyalekapoyanu. Job manesi intlone unnanu, gradual ga depression lo velpoyanu, minimum na parents kuda nannu pattinchukune varu kadu, so negative thoughts ekkuva aypoyi roju rojuki sucidal thoughts perigipoyevi.
Konni months ki nalo realization start ayindi. Chinapati nundi nenu chala active and school lo captian alanti nenu ila oka abbayi kosam depress avadam enti anna thought nalo start ayindi. Nalo nenu chala questions veskune dani, like...
Nenu asalu enduku chavali ?
Oka abbayi kosam nenu ila avala?
Na strengths/ weakness enti?
Na responsibities enti?
nenu happu ga undalante em cheyali?
nenu badha lo unte ela divert avvali?
Ila chala questions veskuni okakate naku nenu answer cheskune dani. Nannu nenu motivate cheskune dani. Elanti situation ochina kuda navvadam nerchukuna. Ila rojulu gadusthuna koddi nenu strong ga elanti situation ni ayna handle chesela thayyarayanu. Positive ga alochinchadam start chesina dagara nundi nenu chala optimistic ga ayyanu..
Ipudu na parents naku pelli sambandalu chusthunaru, but ipatiki nenu thanani complete ga marchipolekapothuna. Thanani antha nammi preminchanu but thanatho naku raasi petti ledu ani ardam ayyaka thanani marchipodaniki try chesthuna. Manam okati thaluchukunte devudu inkoti chestharu ani andaru antunte namme dani kadu kani ipudu nammaka thappa ledu. Naku thanatho rasi petti ledu anduke ila ayindi ani naku nenu postive ga theesukuntuna. Nannu nenu maarchukuntuna. Prathi roju devudu ki pray cheskunta antha aa god ke odilesanu antha mana manchike ani..
Ipudu nenu chala happy ga unnanu, I love myself, ila jaragadam vala naku nenento baga ardam ayyanu. Elanti paristhithulo ayna adjust avadam, vere valani ardam cheskodam nerchukunanu. Manaki radu ani thelisinapudu dani kosam try chesi time waste cheyakudadu ani ardam ayindi. E issue vala nenu chala nerchukuna mukhyam ga smile anedi entha important ani ardam ayindi.
Ipudu idantha enduku cheppanante....
Prathi okari life lo ilanti situations oche untayi or ravochu. Manam munde anni plan cheskuna kuda aa time ki marola aypothayi, apudu enduku ila ayindi ani badha padodu.. Prathi daniki edoka reason untundi, vatini manam accept cheyali. Manalni maname nammukovali... Evarana mana life lo kontha varake untaru life long undaru.. Mana life lo jarige edaina manam thesukune dani batti untundi..
By,
Anonymous.
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Blogger Note:
The lady in the story is still trying to get out of the thoughts of her ex, but still, she chooses to live happy rather than crying and getting depressed. In the initial days of break up everyone gets depressed but as the days go on it depends on us to recreate and reinvent ourselves..
Anthaku mundu blog post When an Ex Boyfriend Threatens You lo oka strong woman gurinchi theluskunam kada... Ipudu blog post lo maro strong woman gurinchi thelusukundam :)
In her words...
Nenu Engineering lo unnapudu okathani love chesanu.. Nenu apudu chala calm and sensitive ga unde dani, kani thana vala nenu chala nerchukuna. Thanu nannu chala care chese vadu, anni vishyalo chala support chese vadu, thanalo ivvani chusi nenu thanani enthala love chesanante na gurinchi kuda epudu alochichukoledu. Na importance ni kuda poorthi ga marchipoya.. Chusthundaga 7 years gadichipoyayi, na chaduvu aypoyi nenu oka job lo join ayyanu. Ma prema vishyam intlo cheppali ani decide ayyi oka roju cheppesanu. Apati varaku unna life motham ga maaripoyindi.. Ma parents na prema ni oppukoledu, nannu job manpinchi ma uru ki thesukuni velpoyaru, na dagara phone kuda thesesukuni complete ga house arrest chesesaru. Nenu love cheyadam ma intlo valaki nachaledu, vala paruvu pothundi ani bhayapadaru.. Atu side athani parents ki emo ma parents oppukunte inkem problem ledu ani chepparu anta.
Naku roju narakam la anipinchedi. Oka side career pothundi maro vaipu thanani miss avthuna anna badha. Edana job lo join avthe thanatho matladochu and ma parents ni oppinchochadaniki chance untundi ani ma parents ni kashtapadi oppinchi ma uru lone oka job lo join ayyanu. Nenu ma parents ni oppinchadaniki chala try chesa, chala thitlu and thannulu thinnanu kani ma valu mondiga intercaste marriage ki oppukomu anesaru. Ila one and half year chala try chesanu. Inthalo nenu entha cheppina vinadam ledu ani ma dad na boyfriend ni "nu ma ammayi ni marchipokapothe mem andaram chachipotham" ani black mail cheyadam start chesaru. Vere daari leka na boyfriend nannu odilestha ani cheppadanta. Naku ma daddy thanani blackmail chesarana vishayam ma family friends dwara thelisindi.
Idi ila undaga naku na boyfriend ki mutual friends vala chala godavalu ayyevi. Valu kavalani godavalu create chese valo leka situations ala ayyevo ardam ayyedi kadu. Chala badha pade dani oka pakkana na parents nannu ane sutipoti maatalu maro paka thanatho godavalu, na life ento nake ardam kani stage ki vellipoyanu. Roju yedchedani, chala lonely ga feel ayye dani. Ma parents matalu thattukoleni stage lo unna naku nenu preminchina athanu kuda nannu mosam chesthunadu ani thelisindi. Natho premalo undagane maro ammayi tho affair lo unnadani na friends dwara thelisindi.
Athani double game thelisaka na mind antha blank aypoyindi. Mundu e vishayam nammaledu kani tharvatha thana gurinchi nijalu bayata paddayi.. Yepudu thana gurinchi alochisthu yedchedani.. E lopu chala vishayalu jarigayi, na manasu virigipoyindi. Na badha evariki cheppukovalo ardam ayyedi kadu, em cheyalo thelisedi kadu.. Intha pressure lo nenu job handle cheyalekapoyanu. Job manesi intlone unnanu, gradual ga depression lo velpoyanu, minimum na parents kuda nannu pattinchukune varu kadu, so negative thoughts ekkuva aypoyi roju rojuki sucidal thoughts perigipoyevi.
Konni months ki nalo realization start ayindi. Chinapati nundi nenu chala active and school lo captian alanti nenu ila oka abbayi kosam depress avadam enti anna thought nalo start ayindi. Nalo nenu chala questions veskune dani, like...
Nenu asalu enduku chavali ?
Oka abbayi kosam nenu ila avala?
Na strengths/ weakness enti?
Na responsibities enti?
nenu happu ga undalante em cheyali?
nenu badha lo unte ela divert avvali?
Ila chala questions veskuni okakate naku nenu answer cheskune dani. Nannu nenu motivate cheskune dani. Elanti situation ochina kuda navvadam nerchukuna. Ila rojulu gadusthuna koddi nenu strong ga elanti situation ni ayna handle chesela thayyarayanu. Positive ga alochinchadam start chesina dagara nundi nenu chala optimistic ga ayyanu..
Ipudu na parents naku pelli sambandalu chusthunaru, but ipatiki nenu thanani complete ga marchipolekapothuna. Thanani antha nammi preminchanu but thanatho naku raasi petti ledu ani ardam ayyaka thanani marchipodaniki try chesthuna. Manam okati thaluchukunte devudu inkoti chestharu ani andaru antunte namme dani kadu kani ipudu nammaka thappa ledu. Naku thanatho rasi petti ledu anduke ila ayindi ani naku nenu postive ga theesukuntuna. Nannu nenu maarchukuntuna. Prathi roju devudu ki pray cheskunta antha aa god ke odilesanu antha mana manchike ani..
Ipudu nenu chala happy ga unnanu, I love myself, ila jaragadam vala naku nenento baga ardam ayyanu. Elanti paristhithulo ayna adjust avadam, vere valani ardam cheskodam nerchukunanu. Manaki radu ani thelisinapudu dani kosam try chesi time waste cheyakudadu ani ardam ayindi. E issue vala nenu chala nerchukuna mukhyam ga smile anedi entha important ani ardam ayindi.
Ipudu idantha enduku cheppanante....
Prathi okari life lo ilanti situations oche untayi or ravochu. Manam munde anni plan cheskuna kuda aa time ki marola aypothayi, apudu enduku ila ayindi ani badha padodu.. Prathi daniki edoka reason untundi, vatini manam accept cheyali. Manalni maname nammukovali... Evarana mana life lo kontha varake untaru life long undaru.. Mana life lo jarige edaina manam thesukune dani batti untundi..
By,
Anonymous.
___________
Blogger Note:
The lady in the story is still trying to get out of the thoughts of her ex, but still, she chooses to live happy rather than crying and getting depressed. In the initial days of break up everyone gets depressed but as the days go on it depends on us to recreate and reinvent ourselves..
Be Brave || Be Strong || Love yourself || Respect Yourself || Keep smiling :)
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